Wrong or Right ?

The Conversation Continues…

I have been so hesitant in posting.  I literally written so many content and have refused to post. Ironically, it’s because I feel my article isn’t right, yet it is the same thing I want to identify in this conversation.

Hey friends! Yet to find a unique name for you all, but, today we will talk about , right or wrong.

Let us skip the mundanity and get right into it! Don’t forget our constant theme, is having a conversation to clarity, therefore, what I say here is definitely not a command.

It goes without saying or research that all human beings maintain relationships. Unless... for some reason you are an outlier to the equation, then you get me 👀. In all aspects of our lives we maintain some form of relationship or a few relationships. A relationship is “the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected.”

I started by highlighting relationships because, naturally from one exist there will likely have to be Common or Mutual understanding and, for those that are not Common or Mutual they can often times lead to conflicts. Even the common and mutual ones have conflicts.

What is A Conflict?

In this instance a conflict will be defined as a disagreement between one or more group of person… or can it just be a disagreement ? and not a conflict. Let us use, conflict just the same.

I choose conflict, why? If two (2) person disagrees then the idea of this article has already beard its’ fruits. With that being said, conflict due to the right and wrong factor is perceivably unnecessary.

What If ?

According to Freud ” The ego has no concept of right or wrong; something is good simply if it achieves its end of satisfying without causing harm to itself or the id” I have always been so privy to experience the right and wrong factor and we already know which end of the factor I always want to be on, the right, duh! however, the more I wanted to be right the more problems I had. Well the more, unnecessary problems I found myself in, and, it wasn’t that I wasn’t right, or, the other person or persons was wrong, it’s just that to please myself, I just had to be right. Right about the situation, my assumption, my idea, right about people, I was just not pleased enough unless I came out on the right end of the conflict. Overtime being right and having unnecessary conflicts lead me to want to think more deeply about many things I wanted to be right about and many unsettled conflicts I had. That made me realize so many situations do not need a wrong or right outcome. All it need is understanding, irregardless of two persons agreeing. Don’t get me wrong either or should I say don’t misunderstand me. There are many things that are morally right or wrong but the conflicts we have in our everyday relationships do they have to end in right and wrong?

Leave a comment with your thoughts  on how you perceive the right or wrong factor.

If you have gotten to this point, thank you for reading to the end! Feel free to add your voice to the conversation so we can continue the discussion 😊.