The Person You are With Maybe Draining your Energy.

I ws always puzzled any time seemingly loving and happy couples breakup or divorce. Especially those that have been together for a very long time but then it dawned on me.

You may be with someone and you are okay being with the person, it is not a bad relationsip or anything, but you are constantly drained.

When I say drained, it is just thte lack of so manyy things in the relationship that you are not able to readily identify. Instead, you seem to be suffering from mood swings, you are overly emotianal, always tired, fatigued , among a wide range of just negatives, but it is not enough to question the relationship.

If that is you, your partner maybe draining your energy, whether it is intentional or not, it is just them doing enough or doing too little to provoke such feeling. They will half hear you or pretend like they did not hear you att all. They will be doing the most one minute and then the bare minimum the next. However, in all of it , they are really doing e nough to just keep you around , hence it is not easy to pick up on what is happening.

Love is beautiful, having someone to love you and some who you love is amazing. It is only amazing when that person is genuinely in your corner. You are able to hve someone in your corner who does not do the bare minimum and expect praise. Instead, they love you right and inttentionally and insteead of feeling drained, you feel alive, motivated, happy, joyful among other positive emotions. You look forward to conversations, you look forward to equally loving the person the same, you care without reservations for the person. You are not afraid tto open up to the person. You don’t seek validation from the person instead there is mutual respect and understanding.

My lovelies, the next time you find yourself in a relationship and feel unusually tired, demotivated, drained or constantly sick and fatigued; ask yourself “IS THIS RELATIONSHIP DRAINING ME”.

Work thorugh it and find a way to healthily, leave.

Thanks for reading and stay tuned for my next post on the ATTACK ON WOMEN in todays society.