Mindblown: a blog about philosophy.
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Training Up a Child Pt 1.: Lessons from Jehoiachin
At just eight years old, Jehoiachin’s reign in Jerusalem was marked by failure—he “did evil in the sight of the Lord.” His story reminds us that youth does not guarantee innocence, and that children must be nurtured in righteousness from the womb. Parents, mentors, and communities carry the weight of shaping young hearts. This post…
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You Can Be Getting All the Money in the World… and Still Be Broke
The Paradox of Plenty 💸 Ever met someone who earns well but constantly feels broke? It’s not always about numbers , it’s about mindset, discipline, and sometimes, trauma. Scripture reminds us: “For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.” (Matthew 6:21, KJV) Money without management becomes sand slipping through fingers. Let’s look…
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Part 1: Why Boundaries Matter in Relationships
In every relationship, whether with family, friends, or a partner, we walk a fine line between connection and autonomy. Connection allows us to feel safe, loved, and supported. Autonomy gives us the space to protect our individuality, energy, and well-being. When boundaries are unclear, we risk tilting too far in one direction: Without autonomy, we…
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Part 3: Sustaining Healthy Boundaries & Compromises
Mastering the Balance: How to Sustain Boundaries and Healthy Compromises in Any Relationship SEO Meta Description: Learn how to maintain strong personal boundaries while compromising effectively in relationships. Discover practical psychology-based steps for healthy, lasting connections. We’ve explored why boundaries matter and how to recognize safe compromises. Part 3 focuses on maintaining these boundaries and…
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Part 2: Compromise Without Losing Yourself. The Psychology of Healthy Give and Take
Relationships are built on give and take. But how do we give without feeling like we’ve lost ourselves? How do we compromise without resentment simmering beneath the surface? This is where the balance of boundaries and compassion comes into play. The Psychology Behind Compromise In psychology, compromise is seen as a form of conflict resolution.…
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Part 1: Why Boundaries Matter in Relationships
In every relationship, whether with family, friends, or a partner, we walk a fine line between connection and autonomy. Connection allows us to feel safe, loved, and supported. Autonomy gives us the space to protect our individuality, energy, and well-being. When boundaries are unclear, we risk tilting too far in one direction: Without autonomy, we…
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Compromise Without Losing Yourself: 6 Steps to Healthy Boundaries and Relationships
“I don’t get annoyed with the same things you get annoyed with.” That one sentence captures the essence of why relationships whether friendships, family bonds, or partnerships can be so complex. We all bring different sensitivities, habits, and values to the table. But too often, we make the mistake of measuring others by our own…
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The Unchangeable God — His Hand Is Still Stretched Out
Let’s be honest, it’s so easy for us to make God small in our minds. We question Him. We ask if He’s truly going to come through. Will He keep His word? Will He do what He promised? And when He doesn’t show up the way we expected, we start shrinking His sovereignty down to…
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